Tips for dating an asian girl
Yes, the initial game is much the same, but if you are planning to take it to the next level and get involved there are some things you need to be prepared for.
Let’s address the elephant in the room right at the start – a lot of people automatically assume when they see a Western man dating Asian women she is either A) After a green card or visa, or B) Is poor and looking for security/wealth. A lot of the Asian women who come to the West with the boyfriends/husbands do in fact fit this category, but by no means all of them have an agenda.
It is not unusual to find that men are attracted to Asian women regardless of whether or not they are Asian themselves.
It is a combination of attractive features and the values that they hold.
Dating site OK Cupid has carved out a nice little sideline in blogging about the statistics of their more successful users, to try to help people along the way, busting myths about what does and does constitute a good profile photo and whether eating oatmeal correlates with people you'll like or drinking beer correlates with sex on the first date.
But noting trends is not the same as endorsing them - and some trends are simply disturbing.
The sheer number of cack-handed replies women of Asian ancestry get on dating sites has even spawned its own dedicated tumblr, Creepy White Guys.
Hilarious if you are simply an outside observer, and probably pretty depressing if you're someone getting these messages.
They will not be prepared to wait around or have their arrangements changed at the last minute.
That’s why I put together the following list of life-saving tips for dating traditional Asian women.
Read every tip twice and promise yourself that you won’t mess up your next date. And no, I also didn’t use the Thai equivalent to Konnichiwa. All that matters is that you don’t try to impress her with your cultural knowledge.
Often they are looking for marriage and so will not agree to be one of a number of girlfriends or agree to be there when it suits you.
Sex before marriage is not the taboo it used to be but it will still not be as easy to persuade an Asian woman to sleep with you in the way you have managed to convince previous girlfriends.